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A Complicated Grace
A Collaborative Memoir of Addiction, Grief, and Forgiveness
By Dave Hillis
About A Complicated Grace
A Complicated Grace by Dave Hillis is a profound memoir that invites readers into an intimate exploration of themes such as addiction, grief, and forgiveness. This deeply personal narrative unfolds through letters, poems, and reflections penned during various seasons of Jordan Hillis' life. As a father, Dave Hillis chronicles his son's journey through incarceration, offering an unvarnished look at their evolving relationship.
The memoir delves into the complexities of familial love and the resilience required to navigate life's challenges. It is enriched by contributions from friends and family members, who provide diverse perspectives on Jordan's character and the indelible impact he made on those around him. Through their voices, the narrative offers a multifaceted view of community and the unyielding bonds that sustain it.
A unique feature of the book is its inclusion of reprinted poems by celebrated poets, which weave deeper literary insights into the story. This blend of personal reflection and literary analysis provides a compelling backdrop for exploring the transformative power of grace and redemption.
A Complicated Grace stands as a significant reflection on human nature and the enduring strength found in the ties that bind us.
“Searing, challenging, riveting, inspiring,
and real.”
Father James Martin S.J.
Author of Learning to Pray
“Dave Hillis is a leader with great depth and wisdom. His reflections are certain to bless many who encounter the 'complicated grace' of their own lives.”
Curtis Chang
Executive Director of Redeeming Babel
Author of
The Anxiety Opportunity
"…shows there is a whole-making through losses yet-to-be understood. For not only is grace complicated: it is true, and it trues us.”
James Alison
Catholic theologian, priest
Author of Jesus the Forgiving Victim
About the Author
Dave Hillis
Dave Hillis, a father of three, has dedicated over four decades to the spiritual and social renewal of Tacoma and other global cities, working with Leadership Foundations (LF). He studied at Western Washington University, Fuller Theological Seminary, and Bakke Graduate University. An author and editor, his work focuses on urban ministry and leadership. A lover of poetry, cigars, and scotch, he's also an adjunct professor and served on various community organization boards. He's deeply committed to his catholic parish, St. Leo.
A Complicated Grace FAQ
What is "A Complicated Grace" about?
A Complicated Grace is a collaborative memoir by Dave Hillis that explores the themes of addiction, grief, forgiveness, and grace. The book delves into the life and legacy of Jordan Hillis, capturing the impact of his relationships through a collection of letters, poems, and reflections from those who loved him.
Who is the author, Dave Hillis?
Dave Hillis is an accomplished urban ministry leader and author with a strong background in theology. His work is dedicated to social and spiritual renewal, and he brings this expertise to A Complicated Grace, infusing the narrative with profound insights into human experiences and relationships.
What themes does the book explore?
The memoir explores a range of themes including responsibility, mercy, and the concept of "mishpacha" or family. It candidly addresses the challenges of living with addiction, mental health issues, and learning disabilities, offering a heartfelt reflection on the nature of grace and redemption.
What is the tone and style of the book?
The tone of A Complicated Grace is reflective, heartfelt, and often poignant, woven with moments of humor and warmth. Dave Hillis employs storytelling, personal anecdotes, and poetry to convey the emotional depth of the experiences shared in the book.
Has the book received any notable accolades or reviews?
The book has been praised for its honest portrayal of complex human emotions and relationships. It includes contributions from notable figures such as James Alison, Father James Martin, S.J., and Curtis Chang, who have lauded the book for its authenticity and emotional resonance.
What makes "A Complicated Grace" a compelling read?
Readers have found A Complicated Grace to be a moving journey through grief, love, and the search for meaning. Its multifaceted narrative offers a profound and intimate look at the interconnectedness of human experiences, making it a compelling read for anyone interested in the dynamics of personal and communal healing.
Who should read this book?
This book is ideal for readers interested in memoirs that explore deep emotional and spiritual themes. It's particularly resonant for those who appreciate narratives about resilience, transformation, and the power of community and family support.
How is the book structured?
The memoir is structured around a series of personal letters, essays, and reflections, providing a comprehensive and intimate view of Jordan Hillis' life and the impact he had on those around him. This format invites readers to engage deeply with the narratives and reflect on their own experiences.
What poems are featured in the book?
Mary Oliver: Multiple poems including "A Dream of Trees," "Boundaries," "Heavy," "Invitation," "Maybe," "Mysteries, Yes," "Praying," "The Beautiful, Striped Sparrow," "The Fist," "The Orchard," "The Poet is Told to Fill Up More Pages," "The Summer Day," and "The Uses of Sorrow" are reprinted with permission from The Charlotte Sheedy Literary Agency, with copyrights ranging from 1965 to 2017.
Denise Levertov: Poems like "City Psalm" and "Contraband" are reprinted with permission from New Directions Publishing Corp, with copyrights from 1966 and 1992.
David Budbill: "The Three Goals" is reprinted with permission from The Permissions Company, LLC on behalf of Copper Canyon Press, copyright 1999.
Charles Bukowski: "Everywhere Everywhere" is used by permission of HarperCollins Publishers, copyright 1999.
Robert Bly: "Loving A Woman In Two Worlds" is reprinted by permission of Georges Borchardt, Inc. for the Estate of Robert Bly, copyright 1985.
Edward Hirsch: "Self-Portrait" is used by permission of Alfred A. Knopf, copyright 2010.
Hafiz (Translation by Daniel Ladinsky): "Love Is The Funeral Pyre" is used with permission, copyright 1999.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer: The poem "Who Am I" is used under fair use guidelines, from 'Letters and Papers from Prison', copyright 2017.
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